Just as you express yourself by how you dress for work and play, you can also express yourself with the panties you select for yourself. Notice I said “select”, and not “purchase”. That is in deference to my hamperskunks who like to fish for panties in ladies clothing hampers. Naughty!
You know that I assign panties for you to purchase and give you the opportunity to send me a pic of the panties you got and tell me all about how you obtained them. If this is news to you, check out my Panty Boy Club page for details. This month’s assignment is at the end of this posting. These assignments get you thinking outside the box, and trying new styles, colors, and fabrics. Very necessary to finding the right panty for you.
I have been doing a casual survey amongst panty boys I know as to what their favorite panties are. I asked about style and fabric. One panty boy went into a little more detail and I will be quoting him a bit in today’s posting. He is very experienced in wearing panties and may be helpful to you in discovering the panty you like best.
little luke says, “I prefer bikini style. They cover everything nicely and feel so right.”
He brings up a very important point for you. Panty boys need to find a panty that contains the cock and the balls without squashing them too tightly. This can only be done by trying on a good variety of styles. I do not recommend thongs for men, unless you enjoy either being uncomfortable, humiliated, or both.
Also, you want to be sure that the panties you select are good for stroking. Whether through the panties, or around them. Looking for some special panty boy stroking fun? Let me know. I am great with stroking assignments.
The fabric a panty is made of is key to finding the panty for you. Personally, I am a stretch lace and silk woman. little luke tells me that, “Fabrics can often depend on the mood. Sometimes cotton is the way to go. They snug up against me so nicely. Most of the time I prefer something satiny. Feels great against my body, arouses me, and so good to the touch it is an all day turn on.”
Don’t be afraid to reach out and touch the panties before you even try them on. Do you like the feel of the fabric? Is it soft or scratchy? Is it silky, or too slippery? If you enjoy the feel of the fabric, try it on! Yes…I said try it on. Most lingerie stores and departments will let you try on lingerie. Ask politely and most often the staff will make it work for you. If you are purchasing online, pay close attention to the fabric description. Look for cotton, silk, satin, stretch lace, velvet, as these will feel really good on your flesh.
If the panties feel good, now see if they look good as well. Do you find the color pleasing? Do they have trim that you like? Some new panty boys underrate this aspect at first, so I am encouraging you to pay attention to the aesthetics right away. You might discover that you are into lace, or rhinestones, or ruffles.
little luke provided insight on this topic as well. He says, “I’m a solid color kind of guy. While any color will do, I enjoy blue, light green, red, black the most, with a little bow on the front waist band.”
Through the years, he has found that he is a solid color panty guy. Maybe you are too. But you might be into plaid, like your Irish Mistress. *wink* You might enjoy lace and mesh panels in satin or silk panties. Victoria’s Secret has the keyhole style, and the garter panty, which I am crazy about. Don’t know what those are? Foray to V.S. and ask about them. The ladies working there are incredibly helpful.
October Panty Boy Club Assignment
It is the bewitching month of Halloween, spooks, black cats, pumpkins, and everything scary. Your assignment this month is to obtain a pair of panties that fit the Halloween theme. They can have Halloween designs on them, they can be Halloween colors, or anything that reminds you of the holiday. Take a pic of the panties themselves, email it to me along with your story of where you got them, and how that adventure went. I will post pics and stories on this blog. The panty who submits the best pair of Halloween panties will win a short custom audio by me!
Panty Boy Poll
Want to expand on your favorite type of panty? Please leave me a comment here. Feel free to tell me about your favorite style, color, fabric, look. I love hearing from you!
Sometimes a client sends me their personal story of their path to becoming a panty boy and what they are doing with that passion. When they give me permission to share it with all of you on my blog, I do so. Today I am posting the story of my submissive susan. I believe it is important to do this now and then so my panty boys know they are not alone, that there are many different activities to do within this fetish, and that panty boys can look very different from person to person . Here is susan’s story in her own words.
My Journey of Feminization and Submission with Mistress Violet
This is the first of what i hope will be many postings describing my pathway of becoming the best sissy girl and submissive to Mistress that i can be. With only a few weeks of training i know that i am experiencing many incremental changes in feelings as i nurture my inner girl and give myself as submissive to Mistress Violet. My starting point will likely become a more distant and perhaps unrecognizable memory from the past as i progress.
To Serve a Dominant Mistress
It has long been that many of my sexual fantasies have been about service to a dominant Mistress. In those fantasies i might be stripped naked, offered to others, whipped, obedient, subservient. All of those and more but the core has always been submission, to worship and to serve. Those feelings were inside me, but crude in the way i understood them, informed by the whips and chains of fetish pornography. For me, i wanted to find something more and after wandering around for some time i have found my way here. i am now coming to more fully understand the essential beauty and indeed spiritual nature of my submission to Mistress Violet. The sexual energy, of course, remains but there is so much more.
i love panties. i love lingerie. i love to feel girlie. It seems many have their first experiences as teenagers, raiding their sister’s panties from the hamper or they have some formative experience while young. My own experience has been much more gradual. i love the stories when the girlfriend or wife somehow discover the erotic impact of panties on their man. Now that they have been caught cross dressing, they are off shopping, he mentally resisting (but not too much), being lured in and betrayed by the swelling between his legs. A step at a time he is feminized, transformed into her sissy.
Power of Panties
One day a few years ago i bought my first pair of panties. i thought i would be a fun sexual game, but little did i know the power of those panties. i was immediately in love and on the slow beginning of my own path of feminization. One day googling the word “sissy” brought me to the Sissy School site. A world awaited me. There is a strong feminine part of me inside that needs expression. There is also a submissive seeking a caring Mistress.
Time for Training
i am so grateful to have found Mistress Violet and that she has accepted me for training. In a short time i have learned so much from her and i know there is so much more. Perhaps some day i can be accepted by her as one of her slaves, but there is so much more to learn to earn that honor. i do feel a strongly growing spiritual connection with her and it is so very sweet.
Mistress is helping to guide me in my feminization and in my submission. i have pledged to her that except for relations with my wife, i will have no release without her permission. i understand that the decision is totally hers and that my sissy stick is under her dominion. Whenever release is permitted i proudly eat my cum for her as an expression of my submission and devotion. Daily i recite a special affirmation and devotion to her.
Serve Your Wife/Serve Your Mistress
i strive as best i can to be a good submissive wife. Mistress Violet is quite clear that my wife, who i truly love, is a central part of my life and that a fundamental way to serve Mistress is to serve my wife. And i do want to be a good wife (how special to think of it like that), i do want to serve Mistress and i do want to make my submission a part of my everyday way of being. i should note that my wife does not know of my love for panties and my desires for feminization but she does appreciate all the chores that i rush to do and that i try to anticipate how i can please her.
In one posting i described my recent trip to Victoria’s Secret to buy some panties and lingerie. Mistress told me to buy an apron for my work around the house when my wife is away on business. i bought a very pretty red and black one with pictures of women’s shoes. Some other ways of cultivating my feminine identity – my sissy stick is always fully shaved. i keep my upper chest smooth. Daily use of a scented body lotion. Wearing panties whenever i can. Sleeping in a pretty lace edged satin slip. i pee sitting down. A small spray of body mist on my wrists when i can to have a feminine fragrance through the day. Observing other women in their manner and ways of being. Participating in a bit of girl talk with women at work. These and other things help me to develop my feminine self and ways of thinking.
To anyone who has read all of this – thank you so much *hugs*. i will try to keep up with developments.
Panty Boys are Individuals
Each panty boy is different from all others. It is amazing how many different stories I have heard about how a panty boy discovered his fetish, what he gets out of it, the activities he enjoys in panties, and who knows about it. That is why I like to post stories here. Chances are you will not relate to everything in susan’s story. I do not expect you to. But if you saw yourself in one aspect of susan’s journey, perhaps it may help you to accept your fetish, and even consider trying something new.
You know that I welcome comments. Please leave yours here for myself and susan. We will respond to all.
July Panty Boy Assignment
My sissy susan has inspired next month’s shopping assignment. My panty boy club members are to obtain (buy, borrow, hamperskunk) a pair of panties with a sailing motif. While I cannot post pics of my members wearing their panties, I CAN post pics of the panties you buy. So please leave a comment on the Panty Boy Club page and send a pic of your new panties to me: email@example.com. I will post those pics on a special page of this blog for each month. That way, you can go back and see the panties everyone got for each assignment. Fun!!
Being a panty boy is fun, and exciting, and it is a fetish. You are driven to wear the panties. When you wear them you feel excited; and afterward you are left feeling more balanced. You know you will want to do it again. Perhaps you are wearing panties every day, like some of my panty boys report.
The Magic of a Fetish
When you give in to the temptation and enjoy your fetish, it relieves some stress. It is that simple. So that means when you put on a pair of panties, you are actively reducing your stress level. It is true and fun!
If you fight the urge, and keep thinking about slipping on a pair of soft, silky panties, your stress level goes up. So it is in your best interest medically to put on some panties and enjoy it!
There are so many fun holiday season panties out there. Red satin panties that feel incredibly good for tease and denial games. You will find rumba panties with jingle bells on them that are delightful for guided masturbation phone sex. I enjoy hearing the jingling along with all of the other delicious noises you make. *smile*
I would be remiss if I did not comment on the fun holiday prints on panties this time of year. Last weekend I saw a pair of bikini panties with little reindeer all over them. I thought…oh, how perfect for small dick humiliation. I started giggling at the thought of a gherkin poking its little head against the inside of those cute panties.
So put on your panties and relax. Enjoy the holidays more and let those panties work their magic for you.
December Panty Boy Club Assignment
I want you to get a pair of panties that are Christmas themed and amusing to me. They can be covered in tiny lit up bulbs, festooned with red and green ruffles, jingling like Santa’s reindeer, or covered in funky elf faces. But I want to be amused.
So there you have it. Time for you to get shopping panty boy. And if you are not yet a member of my Panty Boy Club, what are you waiting for??? All it takes to join is following the assignment, and posting your experience and a description of the panties you got on my Panty Boy Club page.
A Special Treat
My heart is big and Christmas season makes it grow even bigger. I have a prize for the panty boy who submits the most amusing Christmas theme panty to me. That means I will need to see them. So…email me a pic of you wearing your selection. You do not need to show your face if you do not want to. But I must see the panties.
The prize is a very sexy, autographed, kissed photo of me in panties, of course. It will be a size suitable for framing, if you wish. The contest closes December 31st, 2012.
Adding More Fun
This blog is for you, my wonderful panty boys. I want it to be a place you can come to read about adventures, learn new panty boy games, talk about your panty wearing, and have fun.
What would you like to see here in this blog? I am open to all suggestions. Thank you! xox
You need something new and extra naughty to perk you up. I can tell. Well, I have just the thing. It is a little panty boy, cock teasing driving adventure for you. It will require a pair of panties (that’s easy!) and a vehicle.
Check the end of this posting for the November Panty Boy Club Assignment!
Put on a pair of panties. Choose your brightest, loudest print. It is important that they are very easily noticed. Over those panties put on a pair of pants that zip up the front.
Get in your vehicle and be ready for action.
Choose Your Path
If you are a bold, man of action, you may choose to drive through the downtown, or on a very busy street. Shy, or too nervous? That’s okay. Drive to a less busy area to begin.
As you continue reading, you will understand that this game will be fun no matter where you drive.
You can play this panty boy game at night, under the natural cloak of darkness. It will be fun. But if you play during the day, it will add another element of thrill. More people may see you. More people may find out that you are a panty boy.
So I leave this determination up to you. Again, either way it will be a lot of fun.
As soon as you leave your immediate neighborhood, pull over to the shoulder of the road. Unbutton and unzip your pants. Pull them open so your bright panties show clearly. NOT your cock. That would lead to bad juju.
You are ready to begin playing now!
Fun, Fun, Fun
You are to drive around for at least 20 minutes with your panties clearly showing. This can be done on your drive to work, or back home. No one will see you unless they are looking down into your vehicle. Which means that if a truck, SUV, or van is next to your vehicle, they could look over…down…and see your secret side. *gasp* Did that pretty lady just see your flowered panties? Oh my! Did the beautiful woman in that SUV give you a wink?
I will not lie to you. It would please me very much if several lovely ladies saw your panties and gave you a knowing smile. Of course, do not take unnecessary chances. A little panty exposure is fun. Do not get out of your vehicle wearing only panties or less. That requires a completely isolated location.
What Happens Next
Find an isolated place to go right after this game. I say this because this game is very exciting and you will get quite aroused playing it. So find a private place where you can go for some cock stroking enjoyment. You will be ready for that!
After all of the tease of driving around, knowing people could be seeing you wearing panties…I want you to call me. You can tell me all about your adventure and then I will rock your world with sensual masturbation instructions.
November Panty Boy Club Assignment
I have a Panty Boy Club. Each month I give my members an assignment to purchase a specific pair of panties. They shop for the panties, online or in person, and then post their experience and choice of panty on my Panty Boy Club page on this blog. You can join any time. It is FREE and lots of fun.
For November, I want you to purchase a pair of chocolate brown panties. They can be any style, any fabric. But they must be chocolate brown, which is a deep shade of brown. That color reminds me of lots of Autumn pleasures…turkey, hot chocolate, fallen leaves.
Your other option for procuring panties is hamperskunking. Don’t know what that is? You need to learn about this fetish.
I will be looking forward to reading your panty adventures. Remember to post those on the Panty Boy Club page. I know my manly men panty boys will have fun with this. *smile*
Have you ever driven with your panties showing? Have you driven anywhere with nothing over your panties? I want to hear about that.
Over the years, a pair of panties just mysteriously disappear now and then. I clearly remember putting them in the hamper, but after my laundry was done, the panties never made it back to my lingerie drawer. Truly one of the great mysteries of life. I simply thought they were going wherever it is the occasional missing sock goes.
The Odds Are Good
Considering that the average woman I know has about 30 to 40 pairs of panties, it is pretty easy for one to go missing and not even notice. At least not for a while. If it is a favorite pair and we look for them…everywhere…in our drawers, the hamper, the washer, the dryer, behind the washer and dryer and still come up empty handed…now that is a different story.
I start thinking about where I have been since the last time I wore that favorite pair of panties. Hmmm…I was in Vegas. Maybe I left them in the bed, or on the floor. Women call their boyfriends asking if they left the panties at their place. But once we tick off all of those possibilities, and still do not locate the missing panties, we are left with but one conclusion. Men in panties. Yes, a hamperskunking panty boy has struck again!
Narrowing the Suspects
This is the point where I start making a list, on paper, of every man who has been to my place since the last time I wore those panties. Everyone from my boyfriend, to a satellite tv guy, a repairman, a friend’s boyfriend. All of them are on my list of suspects. I start turning my bright light of suspicion on each one in turn; wondering which of them is using my pretty panties for their private tease and delay fun.
Did you hamperskunk my panties? Did you? *laughing* Not that direct. But I will casually mention “The weirdest thing. A pair of my panties has gone missing from my laundry.” Of course I am watching their reaction closely. With my powers of observation, the guilty party is as good as busted at that point.
Turning the Screws
Once I determine who store my panties out of my hamper, all that remains is how I will punish them and for how long. If I allowed every hamperskunk who felt like waltzing into my place and snitching a pair of panties for himself to get away with it, I would need stock in VS! I know you can see my point here.
I am a big believer in having the punishment fit the crime. So often I hand the culprit a shopping list of panties they are to go buy for me. They have to enlist assistance from a cute salesgirl, tell her that the panties are for them, even if they would obviously be way too small for them. *laughing* Then they have to present the new panties to me personally. Five pairs of super cute new panties in exchange for the one pair you hamperskunked. Consider yourself lucky! Repeat offenders have to put on a fashion show in panties for myself and my girlfriends. If that gave you a thrill, consider a fetish phone sex session where we roleplay that scenario. *wink*
October Panty Boy Club Assignment
This month is my favorite holiday of the year. Yes, I adore all things spooky and haunted. So Halloween is a big deal with me. And that is why you are being assigned an appropriate panty assignment.
You will obtain a pair of panties that are sexy and have a Halloween theme. That does not mean you have to get panties with a jack-o-lantern pattern on them. Just a pair of panties that somehow embody the spirit of Halloween and make you want to jack off with them!
This is another long month, so you have lots of time to go shopping and post your assignment details on my “Miss Violet’s Panty Boy Club” page of this blog.
Have you ever hamperskunked on Halloween? I want to hear your naughty holiday tale!
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