The Early Years:
He may have had a sister. Perhaps he borrowed her panties and tried them on due to a young boy’s curious nature. Or he saw his mother’s panties and tried them on. Either way, he tried on panties and discovered that he loved the feel. The other typical intro to panty wearing is having a girlfriend during college years who was into it. She sweet talked him into wearing panties…maybe even other female garments. He was leery, but enjoyed his time with her and learned to connect panty wearing to eroticism. A brand new panty boy is born!
He Learns & Expands:
He has moved away from his sister/mother and no longer has her panties to borrow. Maybe he is in college now. Or he has graduated, broken up with that old girlfriend and moved on. At this point, he thinks back to the satisfaction he got from wearing panties…being crossdressed. So he does one of two things: he gets his own panties and begins to wear them more and more often. They become closely entwined with his thoughts and desires around what is erotic. OR…he tries pushing his love of panty wearing deep down and ignoring it. It doesn’t work and keeps popping up to say “Hello…remember me?” off and on for years. Sometimes MANY years. But at some point, our blossoming panty boy reaches the next phase.
Acceptance of Desires:
For every man has his breaking point and at some point…he reaches his. He says to himself, “I love wearing panties. I need to wear them. By God…I’m going to wear panties!” And he gets some panties of his own, expands his existing collection to new styles/fabrics/colors, or even finds himself the Holy Grail of panty boys…THE WOMAN WHO LOVES PANTY BOYS. Finally…wearing panties becomes part of his daily life. He has embraced himself, his desires and becomes a more authentic person. And when he can’t find that woman, he calls me for some world class Fem Domme phone sex!
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Great blog !! I got started in a similar fashion. A year or so ago My previous girlfriend left for a job all the acrosss the country. We had a great night of sex, and the panties she was wearing our last night together she left for me as a gift..At first I was going to put them in a drawer, but I started to smell them, then all of sudden I thought of trying them on…Boy did I get aroused…I have numerous times since, tried very hard to supress, sometimes I was able, not others.. : )
Michael (Michael in thong wall of fame)